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Sweet you may be but no candy from your sugar.

One of the most difficult aspects of growing older and becoming a mature gay man is that regardless of one's actual resources, one becomes a potential sugar daddy.

It is quite noticeable that, if despite your great age, you dare to set foot into some gay bars, you become become the object of attraction to some of the most attractive young men around. Of course commonsense tells you exactly what they are after and it's not your well preserved, if well used, body or any part of it.

You do of course also attract a lot of weird people and you know that they see you as someone so desperate for sex that even they stand a chance. They do want your body not your Visa card , but do you want their's ?

The problem with the automatic reaction to both of the above two groups of people is that it can be wrong. The difficulty is sorting out just what peoples' motives are. Always assuming they are bad means that older gays miss out on experiences which can be satisfying in many ways which may or may not be physical.

I was once propositioned by a nineteen year old whose motive was not financial gain nor desperation. He was a real stunner in case you are wondering and although I would have enjoyed sharing my hot water bottle with him, I didn't. What I did have is a friendship which I valued. I didn't rule out a physical element at some stage in the future but I didn't think at the time he was too sure about his sexuality. Instead of whipping him straight into bed while he had the urge, I gave him time to change his mind, which he did. Had I assumed he was interested in the size of my wallet rather than the size of anything else, I would not have made that friendship.

In the same way I would have missed out on some really exciting, very erotic sessions had I assumed the rather skinny, plain looking oriental guy I have spoken of before, was some kind of weirdo. What he lacked in external looks, he more than made up for in imaginative techniques. By the way I've decided to refer to him as Toyota in future to celebrate the smooth rides he gave me

. I have also had some pleasant evenings in bars chatting to weird guys who I know I am not going to do anything with and also with guys I know are on the make but who for the price of a couple of drinks are interesting to talk to even if that's as far as it goes.

If I was a sugar daddy, and I don't see anything wrong in being one, I would imagine that some of the worries would still hang around. Even if the size of one's financial resources mean that a few hundreds of pounds here and there while looking for sex won't mean calling in the receivers, there is still the fear of being robbed or worse.

Trying to weigh potential partners up is still difficult at times especially when the spaceman who designed our brains stuffed a bit which was left over in the end of our cocks.

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