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It's not the pale moon that excites me...
We all know the theories about father figures and all the other explanations of why younger men go to bed with older men. It's been the subject of books, films and stage dramas. It's been done to death on Oprah Winfrey and her clones. But why do they do it ? What is the attraction of the older man for a younger man and vice versa ?

As I grow older I realise that there is not a single answer. I do know that I have had boring sexual encounters with men very much younger than myself. To be fair I have also had boring experiences with guys my own age. In all cases it has been down to lack of real experience by my partner. This lack of experience can be very exciting if you are prepared to be patient and your partner keen to learn. It can also be as boring as hell if he has been watching too many american porn movies and thinks he knows it all and the language to go with it.

One young guy who had arrived on the scene from one our ex colonies had me in fits of laughing when he came out with "Come on big boy, give me a blow job" just as he had learned it from some dodgy VHS porno tape. I don't think he really saw the funny side of it.

There is some truth in the father figure theory although what kind of father has sex with his son ? I have found that many of the younger guys I have known have lacked a father either through divorce or separation. I don't however think they were looking for a substitute father, they wanted sex, but they found that sex combined with someone more worldly and mature was a powerful attraction. As an interesting side comment none as far as I am aware had ever been abused by their missing fathers.

I have found that there is an element of younger guys who are turned on having their bodies genuinely admired by an older guy. With a guy their own age there is liable to be competition and even a feeling of not looking as good as their partner. With a older guy, they know they look good in his eyes and from that confidence comes sexual excitement. 

There is also the old theory about the attraction of opposites. The slim smooth younger guy getting turned on by the older heavier built, possibly hairy guy for example. It works in other ways, Black guys with white or bikers with drag queens, the world of sexual attraction is wide and varied and there are few rules. I certainly find most of the younger partners I have known would not fall into one physical type, the difference being the age. As the age of my partners gets closer to my own, so the types narrows down to those who could be called physically different.

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