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I'M A FIRST TIME CALLER AND I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE SUBJECT BUT I WOULD LIKE TO PUT IN MY THREE PENNY'S WORTH 
(WRITTEN SEPTEMBER 1999)

I have only ever known one pedophile. I'm not even sure that is the correct way to spell it. And yet I am a gay man. Strange that. Well strange to many who have as little understanding of what being a gay man means as I have about the lives and times of pedophiles.

I say this because I have just listened to yet another very reasonable sounding lady, yes certainly a lady, not your common or garden woman, giving her views to a sympathetic presenter on the radio about gay men, children and pedophiles.

What brought the matter up and set the phone lines a ringing was the story of the two gay men who have paid a woman, note not a lady,  in the United States to have a child for them and has in fact actually produced twins. The caller was convinced that they could be pedophiles or if they were not their example would send jumbo jets full of pedophiles hot footing it, or rather hot winging it to the good old USA to sow their seed and reap their reward.

For a fair few thousand dollars, they could grow their own children all ready to molest when they reached the age to which they were attractive to them. In the meantime of course there would be dirty nappies to change, feeds to be mixed, tantrums to be dealt with and a host of other inconveniences.

Now I ask you, would a pedophile go to all that trouble when for £399 he, or to be politically correct, she could buy a ticket to any one of half a dozen third world countries where suitable victims line up waiting to be molested. 

If he, and I'll stick with that if you don't mind, finds all the hassle of third world travel too much, he can watch out for one of those single parents with a few kids who he could woo with flowers and the odd trip to Harvesters. After which he moves in, marries the mother or lives over the brush and within weeks gets what he really wants.

He could even get paid to help out at a children's home, or become a devoted volunteer at a club or scouts group, or just be extra nice to the neighbours kids.  All a lot easier than actually going to all the trouble of 'growing his own', and a whole lot cheaper.

So I'm not sold on the accuracy of the opinions held by this very nice caller. I do appreciate the concerns of those who think having two fathers is no substitute for having a father and mother. I had a father and mother who were pretty average but I am gay man and nothing they did was responsible for that. I happen to also have children who are biologically my own and as far as I am aware they are attracted only to the opposite sex.

It depresses me however that there are still people out there, and their numbers are large, who still associate being gay with being a pedophile. It seems to me as someone of average intelligence with the ability to read that large numbers of such people are not gay and target little girls not boys. Large numbers don't discriminate targeting boys and girls. Some target boys only. Large numbers of such men are related to their victims, may even be their fathers or step fathers, brothers or even grandfathers.

I have read that the majority of child abusers are family members known to their victims. Of course that may only be anti "family values" propaganda put out by the Gay Mafia most of whom, it appears now live in Scotland. Funny that. I thought Rome was their most likely home base.

I digress. There are millions of Gay men in the world. A small handful are also pedophiles. If it were not so, no child would be safe anywhere on this planet. As it is most children never experience being offered sweets, rides in cars or a chance to suck a nice lollipop. It's time adults grew up and accepted this and turned their brains to more important things than who should or should not be a parent. But then I also enjoyed "South Park, the Movie" and "The Life of Brian" . I also thought Arnold in "Torch Song Trilogy" made a great parent.

I started this article by saying that I have known only one pedophile in my life. He rented a room from me years ago and I quickly asked him to leave when his views on children made me realize where he was coming from. I doubt he was a danger to anyone, just pathetic really. Just like the lady caller.
 
 

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